Hey y’all! So, if you read my last post, you’ll know that this post is about why I chose “New Year – Same Me” as my January 2018 monthly theme and what it means. Now, bear with me, as I’ve been struggling to put my thoughts on this into words. I think that this is partly because “New Year – Same Me” is a concept that I really want people to get behind and feel on the same level that I do, and partly because it’s hard to describe what it truly is without sounding redundant.
New Year – Same Me simply means that you spend the new year embracing (and learning to love) the person that you are instead of focusing on trying to be a different person all together. I understand that the “New Me” portion of “New Year – New Me” doesn’t mean that you are trying to be a different person, but think of the normal new year habits… For the first few weeks, most of us spend time working towards these new year goals and resolutions like they are all that matters. We spend so many hours and so much money on these goals that are typically formed (maybe) a month before. Now, don’t get me wrong, I am all about working towards being a better person.
Here’s the thing; I think that goals should be set realistically and without a certain aspect of “peer pressure” or “societal pressure”. Basically, set goals because you have something that you would like to achieve; don’t set them because someone (or a holiday) is telling you too. Another thing is that I believe people have this crazy notion that a new year means that everything bad that happened in the last year will be washed away. Well, as much as I hate to point it out… that’s not the case. The past year still happened, the good and the bad, it’s not just going to go away.
My point to all of this (this post, this theme, and the way that I’m feeling) is just to tell y’all to spend this new year embracing what has already been you this whole time. Take everything that happened in the past year (and the years before it) and learn from it. Take the time to sit down and go through what you liked, what you didn’t, what you felt you could have improved on, and what you want to do moving forward. This new year is a blessing. It’s another chance to do the things that you haven’t done yet.
Set goals, but do so in a healthy manner and apply realistic timing to your results. Heck, join in communities of people that are going after the same goal to help you keep on track. Being a better you isn’t a bad thing at all. In fact, you should always strive to be a better person than you were the day before. So, take this new year and use it to do fantastic things. Use it to learn how to love the you that you’ve always been and use it to improve the things that you aren’t happy with.
I hope that y’all enjoyed this post and I hope that your new year started off great! There will be more coming soon, so be sure to subscribe or check back in later. Below, I’ve listed just a few “New Year – Same Me” challenges to help get the new year rolling in the right direction. As always, much love!
New Year – Same Me Challenges:
- Spend an evening with your family, without having your cell phone/tablet glued to your side. (Connect with them without letting social media and messaging get in the way)
- Take some time to try new things. (Maybe you try a new restaurant that you’ve had your eye on, a new style that you’ve been thinking about testing, or even a new workout routine)
- Spend some time on yourself. (Try to relax a little and don’t forget to take care of yourself)
- Go for that promotion or apply to your dream job. (Learn to not keep yourself from moving forward because you’re scared of a “no”)
- Make a list of goals that you would like to achieve and hang it up in a place where you will see it every day. (Be sure to set realistic goals and timelines and don’t give up!)